Celebrate V-Day Without a Valentine!

I think there is way too much hype surrounding Valentine’s Day. I don’t really remember one Valentine’s Day in high school where I actually had a “valentine” and yet, our media and culture put focus on it so much that it practically makes those who don’t have someone special feel like there must be something wrong with them. Well, if you are one of those girls without a valentine this year, you are not alone! Millions of other girls are in your exact same situation, and it’s okay. Believe me, it’s much better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship with the wrong guy, or just to have a valentine. I know it can be hard, so here are a few tips to get you through this week:

1. Start with you. You have to give yourself the love and attention you deserve and want others to give you. Find a few special things to do such as listening to your favorite music, dancing with friends, treating yourself to a relaxing bath, or watching your favorite movie. Get the idea? Remind yourself you are not a loser because you don’t have a valentine. You are an amazing person! You don’t need a valentine to confirm that for you.

2. It’s all about the love. If Valentine’s Day is really about love, who else in your life do you really appreciate? Your big sis? Your parents? Your best friends? Look for ways to make their day extra special. A simple card letting them know how much you appreciate them will work. You could also plan to spend time together or go out to dinner. Get creative! Making breakfast in bed or washing their car will make their day.

3. Volunteer. Be a giver! When we give, we feel good. Giving is really about spreading the love around in a bigger way. Do you have a favorite place in the community that you like to help out? Reach out and brighten someone else’s day.

4. Don’t be alone! If you’re still in a funk about Valentine’s Day, don’t spend it by yourself. Find a friend to hang out with. If they’re all busy, spend some time with the fam!

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