Dating Advice: Don’t Get Sidetracked

Being a single girl, I have noticed a lot of my friends have really controlling boyfriends. I guess its just because teen aged guys are a little over protective and insecure. But honestly, what fun is it to have someone constantly telling you what you can and cannot do? Isn’t that what parents are for?

I’v definitely wittnessed verbal abuse in my friends relationships. I know being a teenager profanity is popular, but if a boy can talk to you with that much disrespect when your young, I promise you it’s not going to get better further into your relationship.

If you have to change a boy to be in a relationship with him, it isn’t worth it. Just wait and find someone who has the main qualities  your looking for. And always remeber, if your upset more than your happy, it isn’t worth it.

Just make sure you don’t get your hopes up about a relationship. At this age it more than likely will not last too long. As you both change  and grow, you’ll eventually change and grow away from eachother. Fifteen years down the road, the boy you dated when you were a sophomore in highschool won’t matter too much anymore. Stay focussed on YOUR goals, don’t get sidetracked by the little things that may seem so important in a teenagers life at the moment.