After Prom
April 8, 2010
It is less than two weeks until my prom. At my school, we actually go to a pre-prom assembly the day before. Speakers talk about their drunk driving experiences, and this year we have a reenactment of a car-crash. Basically anyone can go to prom, anyone can buy the tux, and anyone can enjoy a night with their friends.
I want all of you to be safe before, during, and after prom. When I think of prom, I think of Jacob Liscombe and Brad Boss. It was an ordinary night. They were two high school junior and seniors, but they were taken from us so unexpectedly. The alcohol and fact that they thought they were invincible cost us two incredible men. Prom always makes me think of the dangers of driving, especially while under the influence.
So when you’re making post-prom plans, make sure you have a designated driver if you do plan to drink. Don’t be driving too late at night, because accidents are more likely to happen at that time. If you see any friend who plans to drive and you saw them with a few drinks, take the keys from them.
There’s always bowling, a bonfire, or watching movies at a friend’s house. Be safe… not sorry.
Would You Take Off Your Make Up?
April 8, 2010
Jessica Simpson is going bare for her latest cover shoot with Marie Claire magazine! The reason I love this is because Jessica is giving all of us a realistic look at ourselves. No more photoshop or gobbs of makeup. Girls are constantly comparing themselves to impossible models…models that are typically airbrushed and perfected in photoshop.
Girls With Dreams wants to congratulate Jessica for her bravery and giving us all a glimpse of reality! If you haven’t seen Jessica’s new TV show, the Price of Beauty on VH1, it’s worth checking out. Jessica travels around the world looking at how girls and women view beauty and the price they pay to uphold culturul expectations.
Everyone Should Make a Bucket List
April 7, 2010
I am a firm believer that everyone should make a bucket list. My marketing teacher actually made it an assignment to make one. If you haven’t heard about a ‘bucket list’ it’s basically a list of everything you want to do befor you die.
The good thing about a bucket list is that we can always add to it as we cross off things that we accomplish. Before summer starts, I hope you take the time to sit down by yourself and list everything you want to do. It’s a reason to actually go out and do those things, and you’ll be able to say that you did what you wanted to in life.
Here’s part of my bucket list:
Sing karaoke in public.
Go to Spain!
Take a dance class.
Go wakeboarding and parasailing.
Learn to write in vietnamese.
Roadtrip down Route 66..
Remember: a bucket list is a reason to do things. It’s a reason to experience and live. We’d love to hear some of the things on your list!
GWD favorite things for Spring!
April 6, 2010
Here are some of our favorite item’s for Spring! Let us know what you think. Feel free to click the links to see a picture or purchase the item!
My Weekend With a Robotic Baby
April 6, 2010
Last weekend I had a baby stimulator for child development class. This robotic baby was programmed to go off every couples hours during the day and many times during the night and what you had to do was swipe your bracelet and guess what it wanted.
If it wanted food, you had a bottle that had a sensor in the top and in the baby’s mouth that would sense when you put it up to its mouth and it “ate”. If the baby wanted a diaper change, you took one of the diapers and swiped it on the baby’s butt (its got a sensor on the diaper and butt). You also had to rock and burp it. It sounds easy right? WRONG. I was about to kill the baby, because I couldn’t sleep for more than 2 hours at a time. And I only had the baby for a weekend…it really made me think what teen mothers had to go through!
For me, I just had to turn the baby in Monday morning, and then I was done with it. I didn’t have to worry about picking it up or anything. For teen mothers, they don’t have that. Teen mothers also have very little time for anything, such as schoolwork! And real babies aren’t programmed to go off at certain hours, like the robotic baby I had.
What was the point of this project? The main reason was to teach about the life of a mother, but also to prevent teen pregnancies. And believe me when I say Im not gonna get pregnant any time soon. Being a mother was hard work, and this wasn’t even a real baby!
How to Deal with Cyber Bullying
April 5, 2010
Phoebe Prince’s story reminded us all again we need to do more to prevent bullying in our schools. Phoebe was a teen who was harassed for months by her peers and her life tragically ended with suicide in January. Recently, many of the teens who harassed her have faced criminal punishment for their acts.
Whether the bullying is taking place in person or online, it’s never a good thing. Most news reports suggest much of Phoebe’s bullying was in person, but we know many times cyber bullying has had equally devastating consequences. In fact, an AP poll release in December found that 50 percent of teens they surveyed had been affected by digital abuse in some way.
Find out what our team at Girls With Dreams thinks about cyber bullying and how you can deal with it.
Dating and Twilight: Is it Realistic for Girls?
April 3, 2010
Many of our Girls With Dreams team members are big fans of the Twilight Series. Some girls understand the difference between reality and fantasy and watch or read the Twilight Series for enjoyment. Other girls have a more difficult time sorting out how dating a Cullen compares to dating in the real world.
Recently, one of you sent a question to info@girlswithdreams.com about how the characters in Twilight are influencing your expectations. Here was part of the question:
“I’m in 8th grade and I’m fourteen. If you’ve ever seen Twilight Saga movies or watched Vampire Diaries, you will understand what I’m about to tell you. I want a boy to love me like the boys in those movies and shows and books. I had this idea about how my life would be and now I find out a boy like that doesn’t exist. Sometimes I feel like I don’t belong here on earth. I feel like I belong in a romance movie or novel.”
In response to her question, we sent her back lots of advice from other teens. We also talked more about dating and Twilight in this Girls With Dreams interview. In addition to this, here was one of the responses:
“I love all those books and shows, too. At your age, I watched movies such as a Walk to Remember and want that for myself. Honestly, life just isn’t like that and you will realize that as you get older. Especially at your age, guys don’t know how to love girls. I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Our lives are far from perfect. You will find a guy who cares about you and loves you. Just give it time. And when you get that guy, don’t hold him up to expectations like Edward Cullen or Stefen. Those are unrealistic and your guy will be unique in his own way. Life isn’t about finding that guy. You’ll find him one day. Just be happy with how your life is now. Hang out with your friends or join a club you’re interested in. Don’t be shy; be outgoing and have FUN!”
Are You Really Ready for Prom?
April 2, 2010
Stevie’s Checklist for Prom! Here are some tips on things you want to make sure you have ready for prom.
– The jewelry you want to wear.
– The shoes you want.
– A form of ID (it’s required at my school so make sure about yours).
– A camera to capture all the moments. Dont’ forget to charge the batteries or bring extras!
– If you want a corsage, order one or you can always pick a basic one up at the flower shop.
– Paint your nails or get them done.
-Hair: Do you know how you want to wear it? Practice ahead of time with friends so you’re not stressed the day of prom.
– Your favorite lipgloss. I’m a fan of Burt’s Bees!
Remember make sure your prom is fun, these are some things I always seem to forget when I’m rushing around that day. If you have any other ideas you want to add, we’d love to hear your tips!
Feel Like a Princess in Your Prom Dress
April 1, 2010
We recently heard of various “Cinderella Projects” happening across the United States that help teens find prom dresses without spending a fortune. If you’re looking for ways to cut prom costs, get a great dress without spending tons of money. Check out what our teens have to say.
See if there’s a Cinderella Project near you by running a Google search of “Cinderella Project” plus your hometown.
